Sunday, February 24, 2013

Looking For Prince Charming...

Hello Beautiful People,

And I mean that.  I wish I could give each and every one of you a hug and tell you just how beautiful you are! 

So I had been thinking about this post for a while and then someone left a comment on a post from earlier this week. This one's for you Anonymous.

Anonymous is single and self sabotages using "being fat and ugly" as an excuse.  Anonymous fears losing the weight because what if that's not the excuse for being single? Why can other fat people find a spouse?

Been there. Man, I used fat to keep others away for many years. I was not happy with myself so how could I expect someone to be happy with me?  And what if I couldn't find that person even if I lost the weight?  What would that say about me?

I don't worry about that now. I'm losing the weight. I'm believing in myself. I am happy with myself. I am also that person that annoyed the Former Fat Girl. She was jealous of people like me. She was jealous because she didn't believe that she had it in her to do the things that I can do now. She was annoyed because people like the new me reminded her just how much she needed to change. It was so much easier to lose herself into tv and a pizza.

The guys that I had past relationships with were not good for me mentally and physically. Collaboratively there was a lot of alcohol, junk food, and inactivity. Even as I was starting to make the changes it was very hard to be in a relationship someone who butted heads with me at every turn when it came to healthy foods and exercise. If he didn't want to do it, then it wasn't an option. ARGH. So not good for me.

I know that my Prince Charming it out there somewhere. Maybe I'll meet him tomorrow or maybe next year. But, I know that I'm not going to settle for anything less than I deserve. I see some friends in relationships that make me cringe. They aren't happy, but would rather be with someone that makes them miserable than be on their own. No way. I deserve better!  And so I won't settle for anything less than someone who has the same values and lifestyle as I do.  And make no mistake about it, it's going to be someone who supports me and my new healthy/fit lifestyle.  Anything less than that is not an option.

I don't know who God has planned for me, but I am very excited and know that he'll be worth the wait.

Have a Blessed Night my friends.

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